This is a really nice article about toxic masculinity and patriarchy from a male perspective. It hits the nail on the head when I think about all I am learning about what patriarchy really means and how framing it as a concept of loss that affects men and women differently has really opened up my understanding.
masculinityhttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/sep/24/boys-patriarchy-toxic-masculinity